10.16.2009

Live by this one

I do this homeless outreach in Down Town San Jo on Thursday mornings for class & I told one of the men, "Have a good day." His response, "Every day you wake up is a good day."

True that sir. Every day you wake up, IS a good day.


<3 kz

Guys are like seasons

"Boys come and go like seasons" -Fergie.

Yes they do. Boys are also like seasons in another way, you feel differently about each one, similar to the way you do seasons.

i.e.

If I love you like Summer, that means you're my go to guy. You're my popsicle when its hot, my bikini in salt water, BBQ sauce on my ribs and frosting on my birthday cake. I get excited every time you come around and often think about you when I'm talking to other dudes. I'm always waiting for you and you always seem to be just around the corner. You never stay around long enough. You're probably my first love and you're probably the boy who got away.

If I love you like Autumn, then you're the man I'm supposed to marry. You're that not too cold, not too hot, beautiful, holiday filled, make me smile kinda guy. I probably like you a lot, but just not as much as I do Summer.

If I love you like Winter, it's a love hate relationship. In fact, I really don't love you at all; I just love the excitement you bring. You're cold and icy, but you bring me Christmas, so I'll put up with your antics for a little while.

If I love you like spring, you're just a crush or a fling. Sorry. But if I love you like spring, it's bad for you, because I'm just using you while I wait for my main man to come through...summer.


10.11.2009

10 Red Flags

1. He didn't get you anything for your birthday.
2. He forgot your anniversary.
3. He has never told you goodnight or good morning.
4. He never talks about the future...I'm talking not a day, a week, or month ahead.
5. He hugs to his phone like a koala cub does to its mommy.
6. He never compliments you.
7. He makes plans then breaks them.
8. He doesn't get along with your parents.
9. He rarely says please or thank you.
10. He never takes you out to get to know his friends.

Your man shouldn't be doing ANY of these things. I repeat, ANY of these things. If he's just a dude you talk to, bounce before he gets even wacker than he already is.

A real dude whose down for you won't be doing any of the above mentioned. So quit playing with ponies and go get yourself a thorough bred stallion. Let some other broad break the pony in.