I do this homeless outreach in Down Town San Jo on Thursday mornings for class & I told one of the men, "Have a good day." His response, "Every day you wake up is a good day."
True that sir. Every day you wake up, IS a good day.
<3 kz
10.16.2009
Guys are like seasons
"Boys come and go like seasons" -Fergie.
Yes they do. Boys are also like seasons in another way, you feel differently about each one, similar to the way you do seasons.
i.e.
If I love you like Summer, that means you're my go to guy. You're my popsicle when its hot, my bikini in salt water, BBQ sauce on my ribs and frosting on my birthday cake. I get excited every time you come around and often think about you when I'm talking to other dudes. I'm always waiting for you and you always seem to be just around the corner. You never stay around long enough. You're probably my first love and you're probably the boy who got away.
If I love you like Autumn, then you're the man I'm supposed to marry. You're that not too cold, not too hot, beautiful, holiday filled, make me smile kinda guy. I probably like you a lot, but just not as much as I do Summer.
If I love you like Winter, it's a love hate relationship. In fact, I really don't love you at all; I just love the excitement you bring. You're cold and icy, but you bring me Christmas, so I'll put up with your antics for a little while.
If I love you like spring, you're just a crush or a fling. Sorry. But if I love you like spring, it's bad for you, because I'm just using you while I wait for my main man to come through...summer.
Yes they do. Boys are also like seasons in another way, you feel differently about each one, similar to the way you do seasons.
i.e.
If I love you like Summer, that means you're my go to guy. You're my popsicle when its hot, my bikini in salt water, BBQ sauce on my ribs and frosting on my birthday cake. I get excited every time you come around and often think about you when I'm talking to other dudes. I'm always waiting for you and you always seem to be just around the corner. You never stay around long enough. You're probably my first love and you're probably the boy who got away.
If I love you like Autumn, then you're the man I'm supposed to marry. You're that not too cold, not too hot, beautiful, holiday filled, make me smile kinda guy. I probably like you a lot, but just not as much as I do Summer.
If I love you like Winter, it's a love hate relationship. In fact, I really don't love you at all; I just love the excitement you bring. You're cold and icy, but you bring me Christmas, so I'll put up with your antics for a little while.
If I love you like spring, you're just a crush or a fling. Sorry. But if I love you like spring, it's bad for you, because I'm just using you while I wait for my main man to come through...summer.
10.11.2009
10 Red Flags
1. He didn't get you anything for your birthday.
2. He forgot your anniversary.
3. He has never told you goodnight or good morning.
4. He never talks about the future...I'm talking not a day, a week, or month ahead.
5. He hugs to his phone like a koala cub does to its mommy.
6. He never compliments you.
7. He makes plans then breaks them.
8. He doesn't get along with your parents.
9. He rarely says please or thank you.
10. He never takes you out to get to know his friends.
Your man shouldn't be doing ANY of these things. I repeat, ANY of these things. If he's just a dude you talk to, bounce before he gets even wacker than he already is.
A real dude whose down for you won't be doing any of the above mentioned. So quit playing with ponies and go get yourself a thorough bred stallion. Let some other broad break the pony in.
2. He forgot your anniversary.
3. He has never told you goodnight or good morning.
4. He never talks about the future...I'm talking not a day, a week, or month ahead.
5. He hugs to his phone like a koala cub does to its mommy.
6. He never compliments you.
7. He makes plans then breaks them.
8. He doesn't get along with your parents.
9. He rarely says please or thank you.
10. He never takes you out to get to know his friends.
Your man shouldn't be doing ANY of these things. I repeat, ANY of these things. If he's just a dude you talk to, bounce before he gets even wacker than he already is.
A real dude whose down for you won't be doing any of the above mentioned. So quit playing with ponies and go get yourself a thorough bred stallion. Let some other broad break the pony in.
9.29.2009
Dudes that can't hang
"Because of you, feelings I handle with care. Some n***** recognize the light but they can't handle the glare."- Common, "The Light."
Amen.
All guys see the light. They see it, they do. How can't they? You're shining! But some just don't know what to do with it.
Honey, if your prospects aren't appreciating the light, not doing right by the light, you know, taking the light for granted, cut their daylight savings time short. Hit them with an eclipse. Get dark on them.
Some dudes really just can't handle it. For whatever reason. Too immature, too greedy, too afraid, too shy...those are nice ways of putting it too. I would be more inclined to say, too weak, too lame, too wack, too stupid. But hey, i'm feeling nice today so we will go with the former.
Anyways, ladies, some guys just can't handle the glare. So don't be offended if he doesn't show his reflection in your shine. Take it as a redflag. It means the boy just can't hack it. Bounce and find a man that can and make sure his glare is just as bright as yours...if not brighter.
:)
Amen.
All guys see the light. They see it, they do. How can't they? You're shining! But some just don't know what to do with it.
Honey, if your prospects aren't appreciating the light, not doing right by the light, you know, taking the light for granted, cut their daylight savings time short. Hit them with an eclipse. Get dark on them.
Some dudes really just can't handle it. For whatever reason. Too immature, too greedy, too afraid, too shy...those are nice ways of putting it too. I would be more inclined to say, too weak, too lame, too wack, too stupid. But hey, i'm feeling nice today so we will go with the former.
Anyways, ladies, some guys just can't handle the glare. So don't be offended if he doesn't show his reflection in your shine. Take it as a redflag. It means the boy just can't hack it. Bounce and find a man that can and make sure his glare is just as bright as yours...if not brighter.
:)
9.26.2009
10 things I wouldn't want to live without
1. My family
2. Man upstairs
3. Beaches
4. Ability to write
5. The arts
6. Meat
7. Christmas
8. Autumn
9. Pictures
10. Soap
2. Man upstairs
3. Beaches
4. Ability to write
5. The arts
6. Meat
7. Christmas
8. Autumn
9. Pictures
10. Soap
8.25.2009
Hip hop
"So what's the difference between rap and hip hop? It's simple. It's like sayin' you love somebody and bein' in love with somebody. Rap is only a word." -Brown Sugar
Stay true
Being a bad girl seemed like the thing to do, "So, I got in them shoes, tried them, wore them. Wasn't a perfect fit, so I couldn't sport um." (Nas-Last real n**** alive)
Stay true to yourself. Only way you'll ever really be happy.
8.15.2009
Weak dudes
Weak dudes are like buses, next 15, another one comin. Pretty true. If you're a bad chick, you can have a different dude every week. Easily.
But where are all the Aston Martins?
If you get yourself one of those, don't test drive it, just buy it & keep it. Because if Mr. Martin comes along and you don't purchase, within the next 15 he'll find another chick and you'll be runnin....and then you'll have to catch a bus.
Oh and boys, same goes for you and women. If you want buses, that's cool. Most guys do. And most guys can't even get through the test drive with an Aston Martin type chick. *shaking my head*
But where are all the Aston Martins?
If you get yourself one of those, don't test drive it, just buy it & keep it. Because if Mr. Martin comes along and you don't purchase, within the next 15 he'll find another chick and you'll be runnin....and then you'll have to catch a bus.
Oh and boys, same goes for you and women. If you want buses, that's cool. Most guys do. And most guys can't even get through the test drive with an Aston Martin type chick. *shaking my head*
Subscribe to:
Posts (Atom)